Wednesday, June 24, 2009

I lost THEM......


Just three months and loose two close friend – one to Pride and the other to a misunderstanding.

It takes so long to nurture a relationship. So many ups, numerous downs – you somehow have the strength and moreover a forgiving heart to leg go of things.

But I guess there’s only little that one can let go. Beyond a point these two were like sand in my fist, they eventually faded away.

I know under circumstances that come up, it will be impossible to mend what has been broken.

The first friend, who I was even at the big day of her life and there always when she needed me, be it for issues with her sis or calls or sms due to other issues in the wee hours in the morning, just let it all go over a conversation. Humility is I guess a virtue practised by a few and most of us try to ape it – of course only that much what is palatable to us. Accepting one is at fault even after told repeatedly is I guess superhuman..

The second friend who I lost over a misunderstanding was even more unfortunate. The direction and the peace of a family can change at a drop of the hat. Me assuring her that I was there during the tough times gave me a feeling that I had ulterior motives for my actions. I backed off, and let her be as it is. Silently watched from far and let her be. Today I get to know that she wished I was there during her tough time. Did she say, she wished? Couldn’t that thought be converted into actions or even a few words in a sms?

I haven’t written a blog piece for a long time now, didn’t have the motivation to do so. But these two events have rattled me. And I felt I need to rattle it out too. Least someone reading this article, will be more sensitive and try and not repeat the mistakes that we have.

It’s a sad feeling. Really sad feeling………………………………..

Friday, March 06, 2009

Who's fault is it anyway?


I was listening to F.M. radio in the wee hours of the morning and a caller from Pakistan calls…..

“I apologize to all my India brothers and to the world for what has happened to the Sri Lankan cricket team. It is shameful for us here in Pakistan. The simple Pakistan man is not the one who is against India. We wonder too, why this continuous tension is on with India and the world. I love India, infact I have travelled there many times, and I am simply in love with the country and its warm people. Islam does not propagate violence. It is only the vested interests of a few groups that has created this whole negative image about Pakistan. I am a really sorry for all this”.

Here is the extract of a short conversation with a close friend, this is what she tells me – “Ralston, you know what I hate Muslims to the core. I don’t know why, but just. I have quite a few Muslim friends, who are very good pals, but I don’t know why I just hate them”.

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I fail to understand why this has happened. A part of India long India, a country which is now looked down upon. What has cause this hatred? Dirty politics? Self interests? Religion?

Different theories have different angles to this great divide between the two countries. But I still don’t get it - killing and violence to prove a point?

Now I know, I can be accused of someone whom politics do not mean a thing. I am someone who has turned a blind eye to the happenings around. I have not voted yet.

I am somewhere within me, there’s a voice that tells me…. “You are somewhere responsible for what is happening. Maybe there are millions of others like you that exist. If everyone takes it upon themselves to make a difference in their own little way, maybe, just maybe, we might have a different world – a peaceful world to live in”.

Sunday, March 01, 2009

Meet da sweet brat!


Brat to the core. Six years younger. Chirpy. Cricket maniac. Budding driver (wants to get her hands on my city), cool, kind, affectionate, comedy of errors when she speaks, hates to be called a dude (she feels ‘wannabe’s’ use the word..hahahahah)… etc. etc. the list goes on… :)

Ask her to pronounce Harihareswar and you would get versions like Hariwar, Hareshwar, Harihari… hahahahaha….

She is shit scared of a few people. It’s quiet obvious, I used to be the same at her age. Inspite of this she will put on a brave act of saying – WTF? I am not gonna be at their mercy forever! :) She sneaks out of the house and tells me – “This is the first time I am doing this!!!” ….. lol…. “What if we get caught?”, she continues…. :)

I like her company. Our discussions range from cars, to college affairs to 12-12-12. hahaha.

Her current obsession is mouthshut.com, after I got her hooked on to it. Hope she really makes use of all the reviews that are up there.

Well, that’s enough of her now……. Shez a secret…. :)

Saturday, December 20, 2008

??????????????? Happiness ???????????????


On a holiday now… Amidst all the relaxation and solace that I get here in Goa, something still lingers.

Definition of happiness?

What is exactly being happy? Can anyone decipher it?

Finding love? Loosing it, and realizing that you’ve found someone better? Choicest alcohol? Sumptuous food? Travel? Family bonding?

My minds dates back to the time I was in school and I used to ride this amazing bicycle of mine (which my watchman decide to rob, and take it to his ‘gav’). These were the days when I flaunted the brightest smile on my face and I used to call myself “Mr. Cool”. No worries, no care, no tensions… 

Hahaha… Now that was years back… But things change I guess. College, competition, affair(S), lust, desires, work-life, vices (I dnt consider drinking n smoking a vice mind you!!) – the more the complexities – the more unhappy we tend to get.

An account of some HAPPY moments in my life…

I remember as a kid the happiest moment was when I received a video game!
When I grew up, it was winning a singing competition!
Then came the best phase of my life, when I feel in love with the most beautiful girl in the world!
Then it was the US trip opportunity!
Numerous Goa trips (which acts like a glucose shot!!!  )!
Solo biking trips!
Troubleshooting my car and bikes!
Family dinners!

Guess the best things in life don’t last too long – so didn’t most of the things in the list above…

I met someone with the most radiant smile. He was from a restaurant that I visited for lunch. I didn’t ask him the secret of the smile. I bet the VLCC parlor which was within the vicinity wasn’t the reason. I will go back there and ask him the secret.

I read a book recently on happiness (which I took some six months to complete- psst. It wasn’t a car manual right! :) , here the author travelled various places to decipher the happiness code. But alas his world tour did not throw up very exciting, leading results.

Do you know what happiness is?

Saturday, December 13, 2008

I salute you Brave Men......

An account of the Mumbai terror the way it happened.

Hear the conversation very carefully.

One of the cops who were the first to reach the Taj Hotel comments "Sir, we will do every thing to keep the terrorists on top, even if we die.."

I am proud of you Mumbai Police, NSG, Marcos.

It makes me ponder, how would I have reacted if I was in their place?

I always wanted to be a cop - a cop who would be well know for his honestly, a cop whom the underworld would fear!

"Can't I become on even today?" was the question that came to mind.

The very next question that pop's up....

"Am I ready to give up all the pleasures that I enjoy today for the cause?"


Ashamed
.... I continue with my routine work

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

A prayer - Straight from the heart

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

A friend's story about his life..........

Meet zeph.

A close friend of mine.

He told me yesterday that it’s all over between him and the girl that he loves. A flash back – Zeph split with his girl four years back, she bounced back and forth into relationships (so did zeph) and somehow Zeph was there with her through all of that.

They didn’t have a thing going since the break up. They agreed that they had a thing for each other, Zeph confessed that he still loved her, but she said she was not sure. She did not get into a relationship yet. Zeph on the other hand wanted a serious relationship now, a committed one.

He knew very well things had changed in these four years. Probably some irreversible changes, that both of them could do nothing about. Everyytime they thought of giving each other a chance one of them backed out based on decisions that were made on the spur of the moment. Now I don’t know who was right or wrong, but I was convinced from what he told me that possibly that they were never meant to be together.

Then came the suggestion to be friends by hi girlfriend. Zeph was convinced that friendship has different connotations to it, and it would never be possible to get into something like that.

I am convinced too “Two best friends can be lovers, but two lovers after a split up, cannot be friends”. On the look of it they may appear to be friends, but deep within there is still that side which wants to lean on the other a little more than it would occur to a friend.

Well that was Zeph for you, if I continued writing, probably this would be my only full time job. I could actually go ahead an write a book on his life. Which I would eventually some day.

Friday, August 22, 2008

The pursuit of happiness


Lord please don't move the mountain.

Give me the strength to CLIMB IT!


Am watching "Pursuit of Happyness", not that I did not watch it before. But everytime I watch this movie, there is a different learning.

It reminds me of the fight that one has to fight to earn his happiness

Another lovely quote....

'Don't let anyone tell you that you are not good, not even god!"...

Indeed!!!

:)

Monday, August 18, 2008

He he ha ha ha (Vikram betal types)


Was gifted da 'Cute Devil' by Gayatri. He is right in front of my eyes on mu muzik system.

Looks like even he is always high on alcohol, cause he always keeps falling and I have to straighten him!!!!!!!

Was goin thru da mag and yeah a DEVELISH idea came across my mind. The product?????

Is up here for you to see.....

Have fun..........


HAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA...........................

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Use ur heart or mind or 50:50

When you think you know it all, you face a reality check… “You don’t boss”

When you think you have got the answer, you face a reality check… “You don’t boss”

Moral of the story, some things are beyond your control, don’t try to understand it. Humans that we are, there’s that little we can do and understand.

This reminds me of a story that was told to me when I was in school….

There was once this boy who was playing by the beachside; he made this huge crater in the sand adjoining the beach. He now decided to empty the entire ocean in this crater. He takes his sand bucket, goes to the ocean, collects water and pours it in the crater. He does this again, and again, and again……… After several attempts, exhausted that he was, he sits by the crater. To his utter dismay he sees that the water has disappeared, and the remnant sand the only proof of his effort. Dejected, he starts crying. His father who was watching this from a distance, walks up to him and says “Son, I was like you once upon a time. I wanted everything I saw. Luxuries fame and Love…… You tried your best to empty the water here. But, nothing remained back. We may want many things in life. Things that are beyond and more importantly not meant for us. Its fine to go with your heart, but let your mind take the decision too. Or else, dejection is all that you will encounter. And I know it hurts”.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

A beautiful quote that I came across....




"My Father taught me how to be a man – and not by instilling in me a sense of machismo or an agenda of dominance. He taught me that a real man doesn’t take, he gives; he doesn’t use force, he uses logic; doesn’t play the role of trouble-maker, but rather, trouble-shooter; and most importantly, a real man is defined by what’s in his heart, not his pants."

Friday, August 08, 2008

Vodafone adv - thoda hatke.....



Not sure, if you faced such a situation at a Vodafone gallery.....

Monday, August 04, 2008

Auto LPG gas stations in Goa


The opening of yet another LPG station in Goa in Mupuca is a relief to motorists travelling to Goa with cars on LPG. So no more hassles of paying huge bills on petrol. A 60 ltr tank of LPG should take you 3/4th of the way to Goa. Run the rest of the journey on petrol.

Mupuca is just at the entrance of Goa, where you can top up your LPG tank for further usage!

The petrol pumps retailing LPG in Goa are now three in number:-

Company: Hindustan Petroleum Corporation Ltd. (HPCL)
Dealer: Sri Dattaprasad Service Station
Mapusa , Bardez, GOA

Company: Hindustan Petroleum Corporation Ltd. (HPCL)
Dealer: Sahkari Petroleum
Curti , Ponda, Goa

Company: Elf Gas India Ltd.
Dealer: West Coast Auto LPG Station
NH-4A, By-pass, Bainguinim Village, Tiswadi (Iihas) Taluk, Old Goa
Phone: 9326106875



I am yet to get a detail list of LPG pumps en route to Goa to help you. Will update this space once I get this list.


The government of Goa is taking steps to increase the number of LPG pumps in the state. With the air pollution reaching alarming levels year after year, this step is inevitable.

This will inturn push the sales of cars with factor fitted lpg kits, such as Wagon R Duo etc.

Cheers!!!!

Friday, August 01, 2008

James Bond Time again


Hey guys,

A sneek preview into the lastest 007 flick - "Quantum of solace".

Solace is a paradox with the Bond theme, but nevertheless, whether the it makes it big or flops, only time will tell.

Just a thought, guess a bad year for the movie to be released, when the box office killer - The dark knight was released.

Daniel, hope you saved your best stunts for this flick or next year we will have another Bond surfacing!!!!

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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Do we have the right to take a life?





While we thought that peace would prevail after the Bangalore blasts - Wake up!!!! Headlines read -
17 serial blasts rocked Ahmedabad, while few other bombs were defused in Surat!!!!


This morning, it was reported that 2 other bombs were defused in Surat.

Citizens in Surat have become vigilant and reporting any unattended objects. This is the reason, which this life threatening mishaps were prevented.

I fail to understand one knows what the reason for the blast is, and what pleasure does one seek by taking a life.

Come to think of it... Just a thought…

A scientist once wanted to show God that he can create life just the way God does. He did an advanced research in genetics and created a seed in the exact composition of Nitrogen, Oxygen and matter as there was in another seed. He planted this seed, but it didn’t sprout.

He tried this over and over again. Then finally he gives up and approached God. God ask’s the scientist to build exactly the same seed like he did on numerous occasions below. God take the seed from and gently blows into it, and asks the scientist to plant it.

To the scientist’s amazement, the seed sprouts!!!!!

God then turns around to the scientist and says:-

“You know only I have the power to give life and this power is sacred. Why do you fail to understand that your human and no matter what you do, you will always be. If you do not have the power to give life, do not take”

Friday, July 25, 2008

Bomb blast in Bangalore today

The news is in that there have been serial blasts in Bangalore.

Who’s next?

The once considered safe haven is not so safe anymore I guess…… I hope I am wrong.

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Introspection!!!!!!


I thought I knew the world.

But everytime I look back to at the road that I walked to check on reality....

I say to myself...... "I could have been better"

But this happens every 100kms in my journey in life...

Guess I don't learn from my mistakes.

DO YOU?

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Advertizzzzhhhhing!!!!!!



Do brands ambassadors really make a brand sell? Will you buy a brand that you don’t like, if it was endorsed by your dream Icon?

The above statements are making headlines these days.

While surfing the web, I came across the blog apparently started by the Big B himself, with him writing religiously about the incidents in his life. Right from a injury that he got at one of the shoots to how he cleared his family from the black spot of the Bofor’s deall.

I just wonder how does this man that has more projects in hand than four other actors at any given point in time, actually have the time to blog. Does he actually do it or some help from the many content writers would do so for a fee?

I don’t know if the brand sells, but I am sure that bigadda.com would be having more clicks per page considering the Big B fan following, I am not even talking about the people that do his ‘puja’, giving him the status of the most high.

Now that’s what a call a smart marketing gimmick to sell the site, just a few days from the start of the blog, and it must’ve seen thousands of clicks. Orkut and Facebook now seem to face stiff competition. I don’t think it will be long before the other follow suit of bigadda.

I personally am having a nightmare shuffling between Orkut & Facebook. Cannot by any chance tolerate any more login’s on anymore “SOCIALIZING NETWORKS”

So Amitab Bachan a.k.a Big B, you your want another set of fan following (not me!!!) please mirror your blogs on the webpages too.

You never know, you may just get lucky!!!!!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Just a thought.....

One does not value relationships till loneliness teaches you a lesson.
If you have not experienced loneliness, probably you are trying hard to mask the feeling by involving yourself quickly with something or someone else.
Step back, take time out and be with yourself.
Only then will then understand what you missed in life or maybe even “Glad you missed out on it” 

Like always, again, it’s just a thought…..
Cheers!!!!

Take it EASY!

You wish you had all in life, but you rarely do.

Cherish what you have. Cause you know what was best for you, what went away, probably wasn't meant for you..

Just go on and take it EASY!!!

Cry if you must, if that makes you feel good.

Just go on and take it
EASY!

Sunday, March 16, 2008

Motorcycle diaries, end here........


Ah, the journey has come to a end…. Sitting in the airport for obvious reasons ‘THE FLIGT IS DELAYED SIR, BY TWO HOURS’…..

It was a interesting trip this time. Biked around Goa like I’ve never done before. Deep dived within myself, like I’ve never done before. One learning definitely is that I am going to make atleast one trp like this is a year. A solitary trip……

I’ve met some really nice people here, that were friendly… Ziggi won’t forget you.. Yeah Ziggi hails from NZ, spotted her at 9bar and we got chatting. Post leaving that place, was riding toward Calangute and there I see her frantically trying to kick start the activa :) HAHAHAHA. I had rope with me, so hooked her bike and RESCUED HER (that’s what she claims) hahahahaha…. Was good fun….

I swam like I never swam before, this was at the calm waters of Arambol beach. At first I went to the beach just to relax and have a beer. Dunno what hit me, and I just entered the water. No regrets….. Was in there for nearly 2 hours, Was a distance where I had a full view of my stuff that was on the beach… :)

One of the days I went for a hill trek near Keri beach. Man it was fun. All by myself against the backdrop of the beautiful ocean. The ocean can be so beautiful, especially if your there during sunset…… I wish I was a pot, maybe would have been inspired to write a book of poems.. Lol….. THANK GOD I AM NOT!!!!! Hehehehe….

One of the days went getting Lilian’s car fixed. As usual, I love getting grease on my hands (industrial grease mind… lol). She had some prob’s with the car oil dripping and the radiator fan not working. So had both sorted. The oil was due to the loose oil filter and the radiator fan was due to the faulty motor. Oh BTW just before leaving for the airport, someone defalted her car tires. Hahahaha. She supposedly had an argument with someone from around the place and there have been a series of incidents like these, one of them was cracking of her car headlight….. Thank god she picked up a second hand car. Lol.

Hmmmmmm……..

Well I think we all are breaking to exhale at some point of another. Quite a few friends called me a freak, cause I went on a solo trip. They said I would get bored. Looking back at this one week, I didn’t experience a minute of boredom, I was enjoying my own company and ofcourse at times the company of people like Ziggi…… lol…..

Back to work from tomo, but when I head to Mumbai I have to get the music system installed in my car which which my bro picked up from Dubai…

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Day 3 in Go go Goa

Just headed for my place in Duler, which is very close to Mupuca. Will miss my sis and her kids. Will see them next only on Sunday.

The ride back was amazing. I attribute this to the superb overcast and minimal traffic. Stopped at a restaurant in Panjim by the Mandovi river for a beer (ofcourse kingfisher) complemented with the Goan specialty ‘shindaneo’ a.k.a Mussels. The dish was prepared in spicy masala and rawa batter. Headed for Mupuca post that.

Came home and crashed. Thankfully didn’t have any cleaning to do as there is a caretaker who ensured my house was sparkling clean!!! Thank you Meena :)

Heading out now to Anjuna. Kristopher called me yesterday and surprised me, he said he was in Goa too. So probably will catch up with him and his friends. Oh forgot to mention, to is Wednesday, which is day for the flee market in Anjuna. Over the past years it has lost its charm. Don’t think I gonna get anything good today too. Let’s see.

Cheers……

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Day 2 in Goaa...

Cheked in to the hotel today. Had a day long session on the HR strategy for the coming here.

Post the gyan sessions we went out for Khana….

I took the entire HR junta to a place called hmmmmmm can’t remember the name… Too much alcohol I guess. It was next to Colva beach. There was a singer there, who was belting out some amazing English, Konkani and Hindi songs… It was a fantabulous!!!!!!!

We all had tons of fish. Can you beat Santanu a Bong finally put his hands up and said “Enough!!!! I can’t have any more of this”.. Now when you get to hear this statement from a Bong you know that you’ve had a lot of Fish.

We got back to da rooms, the group had a chat for a good one hour, the details of which I rather not mention here… HEHEHEHE…

Well thought I should write this small lil write up before I call it a day..

Cheers….

Saturday, March 08, 2008

Diaries - En route to da land of Feni, Firangs etc. etc.

I am off to the land of
Feni, Firangs, etc. etc.
Its 5:40 a.m. now and I am waiting for the flight to take off.

The airport seems to be busier than my 8:49 Churchgate slow train. Ground staff frantically screaming their lungs out for a passenger who has checked in, but is nowhere in sight, as the flight is about to take off. My first reaction to them is “LOOSE HIM”.

Thankfully, post my last trip episode wherein my Zippo almost getting confiscated by the airport security, I checked it. I SINCERELY HOPE that my checked in luggage reaches where it is supposed to. This fear arises after how my Fishing Rod that I tagged as ‘Fragile’ was treated like it was a heavy duty gadget and was just flung on the baggage belt.

Phew…… Indians after all, what can you expect??? (No offence! pun intended!) Enough for now.

Next update would probably be by EOD!!!!

Oh BTW, I missed my pal Ankush’s Birthday to, he has turned 27!!!! Man can’t believe it that age got to you so fast Ankush… HAHAHAHA… Too bad can’t party with you buddy.

Friday, March 07, 2008

Beautiful testimony... Click on the link


I suddenly decided to do a google on my brother’s name and I was directed to this webpage, where he had left a comments.


http://www.dgrc.ca/sms/memories/eulogies/foran/first.html

definitely do not regret that google search, as I came across one of the most beautiful pages in my life.

We all have had our loved ones pass away at some point or another in our life. Here is a man, who touched the lives of the students at St. Mary’s High School, Rajasthan.

I have never met him, but the testimonies left behind by the students, including my brother, speak volumes of him.

All this quizzes me, why would God take away someone like this who is actively making A DIFFERNCE in the lives of so many?

Quizzed like I am?

Well, that’s why he is called GOD, he alone has his answers, and guess what he refuses to confide…..

: )


May the soul of Br. M R Foran a.k.a. FORI rest in peace.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

I compare life to a highway……………



I compare life to a highway……………



The drive can be fantablous, with a smooth road. It’s a pleasure riding here. This very smooth road turns into a drivers nightmare. Abrupt speedbreakers, landslides, potholes are the other side of that once smooth road.

Driving just makes you aware of things around you. You pass through villages, meet new people, help a hitchhiker to the next town (trusting that he won’t rob you  ). The ides basically fun.

Then suddenly at this one tiny village what was once a highway, tapers into a crossroad!!!! What crossroad on a highway? Trust me that’s the last thing that you want to encounter. I am sure those travelling on the Mumbai Goa road must have faced this situ (I was asleep behind the wheel, when I faced this. When I did realize it was the wrong route, I had drove a good 10 KM into the village. Lol) sometime.

Life too is something like that. Your faced with crossroads at different stages. But then again we ought to remember that there is what I call the reverse gear in the car. Retrace to where you feel you got lost, and traverse the path that you feel is right, and never on the road that led you to that dreaded crossroad.

God bless….

:)

Sunday, January 06, 2008

What's your New Year resolution?


What's your New Year resolution?


If like hundred people have not questioned me on this, I would have done so.

Wanna know what’s my resolution?

To learn to swim!!!! Yeah yeah… Me a Goan-kar and dunno how to swim? Yeah I know I am disgrace to the Goan community. HAHAHAHA.

Psssst… Now comes the best part. This has been my resolution not only for the New Year but my Birthday too, that too for maybe the 4th year in succession…. HAHAHAHA

Resolutions are “feel-gud” factors. You should have one too……………


Cheerzzzzzzzzzzzzz n yeah Happy new yr. :)

Monday, December 24, 2007

A christmas message for you....


This is a short story of Ralph, son of a God-fearing rich estate owner.

Ralph had all the luxuries in life. Every year he received a special gift for Christmas. A gift that made him the happiest son in the world, atleast for the 25th of December.

It was the Christmas when Ralph had turned 18. He requested his dad to gift him a car- his would be first car. Ralph, did a lot for the built up, for that Christmas eve. He was among the top three students in his college. He did his chores, without making a fuss about them. His extra efforts were well appreciated by his father. This convinced Ralph, that like other years, this year too, his request for his first car, would not be turned down by his Father.

Came Christmas night, both Father and Son went for the Christmas service in their church. Melodious carols filled the air. As the service came closer to the end Ralph got more and more anxious, as he couldn’t wait to get the keys of his new car.

When they reached home, his father told him to pick up a wrapped gift that was placed next to the Christmas tree. Ralph anxiously opened the wrapper, only to find a leather case with the words ‘Holy Bible’ inscribed on it.

Ralph was shocked. He did not expect a bible! That day onwards he became bitter and never spoke with his dad ever. The next month, Ralph left the country for higher studies. He never came home for the summer break or for any other vacation thereafter. He refused to take his fathers calls. He finished his studies, picked up a job and settled down overseas itself. Not once in all those years did he call his Dad to check up on him.

Ralph was 25, when he got a telegram stating that his Father has expired. That year Ralph returned home to relive the memories of his teens. He rummaged through his closet that he had left behind. He found priceless old photographs of him with his friends, family members and his dad. Among the other things there, in the dark corner of the closet lay a dusty leather case, the same case that his father gifted him on Christmas.

He took the case aside, sat on the table and dusted the case. For the first time Ralph reached forward to open the case to reveal the Bible that his Father gifted him. As he flipped the first page these were the words on it:-

Dearest Son,

Today you become not only a year older, but a year wiser. This holy book will help you, while you travel on the journey of life. I must say that I am a proud Father as my son has grown into a fine responsible young man. You know mamma left you and me a long ago, and we both have been more like friends than a Father-Son. Do forgive me for all the times I have been harsh on you, probably mamma would have been calmer in such a situation, but I just want to say that I am trying and will always try to be the best Father in the world. I appreciate all the efforts that you have put in. Turn to the last page, I have a surprise for you

Your loving dad



Ralph’s eyes were filled with tears, he turned to the last page and there was a small brown envelope stuck to the page. He flipped it open and inside was a key- His car key. On the key there was a tag that read “Go to the garage, the car is waiting for you there. And yes, henceforth the garage belongs to you; I shall park my own car out”
The walls of his world came crashing in. He had never cried so bitterly ever.

Hmmmm well that’s Ralph for you. We all in life, have some expectation or the other from our family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances. The moment they don’t fit in we tend to sideline them. We fail to understand them.

Christmas is a very special time of the year. This Christmas let us vow to dissolve the differences that we have with those around us. Lets not be like Ralph, and realize our mistake when its a little too late.

Remember, unless you are at peace with others, you shall never be at peace with yourself.

I have experienced it in my own life, its your choice if you want the same or not.

I wish you and your family a lovely Christmas.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Inanimate but would make you want to talk to her endlessly….


Inanimate but would make you want to talk to her endlessly….


“Come to my place this week at any cost I have “Gauri” at my place”, said Chetaan.

Chetaan has been a friend of mine since senior college. He had invited me to his house, for the same reason which he did a good six years back, but I couldn’t make it then.

Chetaan and his family are descendants of those that stay alongside Mahalaxmi Temple. He has a flower shop there too, which he caters to the numerous devotees that visit the temple.

“I am here to see Chetaan” was all that I had to say at the base of the temple to the temple guard and was let to go without a fuss and with my shoes on. It’s nice to know ‘insiders’ you see. : ) I walked up the steps of the temple, much to the Fanfare of devotional music and colorful ‘Chundris’. What better season to visit the place than that of the Ganesha festival.

I met him at the top and he led me next through his shop to his house. I was taken to the room where the deity ‘Gauri’ was. “Oh my God” was the expression on my face. This was the second time where I felt an inanimate object come to life. The grandeur that she was dressed in was one which only a person that loved her immensely could have dresses her up. The photograph above stands testimony of what I say.

The deity has supposedly been in Chetaan’s family for a long long time, and they have managed to keep her intact, not letting any harm to her. Once a year, the Deity is dressed in the choicest traditional ornaments of the family. Needless to say, these are of pure gold, and other valuable jewels. Various other offerings find their place around her, signifying that the best is offered to her.

‘This supposedly one of the best ‘Gauri’ in the whole of Mumbai’, remarks Chetaan. The continuous flow of visitors in Chetaan’s living room which had the Gauri, convinced me of what he believed. The visitor’s were those who were not even invited like I was, but had come to visit the Temple and dropped in to pray to the Deity.

A personal opinion that I have is that, the ‘Gauri’ here could have been just like any other statue, but here is one which has been transformed in a real person, by the love and respect that the family has towards her.

I was touched, if you were there alongside me then, trust me you would have been too………

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

I don't want to come back today!


I don't want to come back today!


That’s what Steven, or fondly known as Steve, by me and gang of friends, said.
He was sent to US for a month of training. And guess what his month ended on September 11th. The day which in the year 2001 went down in history of mankind!!!!

The week prior to September 11, 2007, the shocking news features on almost every form of media. “Osama Lives”

The air strikes in Afghanistan that were carried out, post confirmed reports of his whereabouts by US Military intelligence, somehow couldn’t put him into the grave. In fact he escaped death nearly four times, post September 11, 2001 attacks that the US carried out on the Taliban strong hold.

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It was around 8:00 p.m. in the evening somewhere in May 2004, when I had a chance to see ‘Ground Zero”. The entire place was fenced. Photographs of better times of those unlucky people that lost their lives hung on the fences. Walking around the fence I went numb. I sat on a bench. My head lifted up to the skies, to see the many sky scrapers that stood around it. A zillion thoughts raided my mind one after another: - What would have been the expression of the passerby’s then; what would have been the situation of those in adjoining buildings; what about the families of the victims; What about those fire men that lost their lives. The day-trip to New York, which took me to places, that made my jaw drop, suddenly changed. It wasn’t a feel good factor anymore.

I can well imagine the plight of Steve when he said what he said. In fact taking this a step further, how would you define “Being Safe”? US thought always that they could be untouched by an external threat. They thought themselves to be a superpower, with the best defense in the world. Too bad they were made to kneel down on that ill fated day of September 11, 2001.

We all travel to work, school, college or pleasure; do you think you are really safe?

I am convinced; I AM NOT, AND WILL NEVER BE!

Now take a look at the picture very closely, that’s what I call being
“SAFE”

Sunday, September 09, 2007

HR guys are womanizer’s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




HR guys are womanizer’s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAHAHAHAHA……

So true right?

Don’t blame you for that opinion. Your just like one 98 in a 100 employee strong organization. The other two that think otherwise is the victim and his boss (if a guy, considered to be an even bigger womanizer :) )

I was at a HR forum last evening, which saw the top guys in the HR fraternity confluenced for a discussion on “Perception about HR”

Guess what, the title of this blog was a hot topic that was discussed. Trust me guys, all present there were so passionate about this topic. There were instances wherein how they got anonymous threatening emails from guys within the organization, to stop talking to a particular person. And list of incidences were hilarious, and kept me at the edge of my seat (for once in any conference  - psst.. I find them boring)

Look at your HR guys in your own organization. You may find a mix of them. There are: 1. Some that act as if they are chained to their chairs, thus you never see them.
2. Some that speak to only a certain set of people, more often to those on the same level or senior to them, as they find it below their self esteem to interact with th ones down the line.
3. You have the targeted lot who are extroverts to the core. Who get screwed for not doing their desk jobs, as they are busy chatting with those at work place. Understanding them, hearing their agonies out and getting a pulse of their work place.

One of my ex bosses that I adore once told me “Do you think the employees care four F%$&s if you ensure that the attendance is in place or rather you doing things behind the scenes to make their life simple? What employees want from HR is for them to be like their best friends at work. And that is going to happen only when you get out of you chair and meet u with them. The test that your on the right track is when you:-
- Tell an employee senior or junior for a favor an he does it not because the MD has forced it down their throath through you, but he does it because he RESPECTS AND ADMIRES YOU.
- Can freely walk into the senior management cabins and the have willingly accept you there and chat with you.
- When you have employees drop into your cabin when the are near in to say even a small hello.

Well that’s the the take on HR guys, so if you are termed as a cassanova or a guy that does not do work, its something which you will have live it.

LAUGH IT OUT!!!!

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Su Do Ku

I never bothered to play this game, though I use to see it feature on every print publication.

Su Do Ku contests??? Jesus Christ, what are these guys thinking?

Then I come across this group of fanatics that swear by the game and could do anything to raise the bar for completion of the time. The drive to beat the best time.


All in all it's a stimulating game, and hopefully you will enjoy it.

So go ahead and enjoy it.

Happy Su Do Ku-ing

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

I had a dream


I had a once dreamt to be rich.
I continue to.

I had a dream that I would be happy forever.
I am still waiting for that day.

I had a dream that I would love like never before.
On this I hold back and wonder. What is love?

That’s when I realize, its good to dream, but dreams are something you don’t have control over.

There is a tradition in my family that the destiny of a new born is written on the 7th day. This is the time when event my my mom held me in her arms the entire night and prayed to Jesus. Health, Wealth, (nice homely wife hahaha) and all.

I don’t know if the above is true or not, but I am convinced that our future is the fall out of our actions.

Go on.

Dream on………………………

Sunday, August 05, 2007

A note on friendship day..


This is the note that I emailed all on Friendship day


From last week sms’s have been pouring from all over, Happy friendship day it read. 

I pondered over what Friendship actually meant to me?

Was it the time that I spent with you, in school, in college or at work?
Was it all the time gave your bakwaas that you spoke a attentive ear?
Was it the time we actually had a tiff, over difference of opninion.
Was it just a mere acquaintance at a party, where we exchanged contacts and began chatting.
Was it a conversation that started after meeting online on this god sent ORKUt.

I did not come to a conclusion. Guess friendship is something where you make an association with a person, an association that you would not want to part with for a long time to come.

Guess days like these are good for us to remind ourselves and thank all those that have made a difference in or lives.

Well enough of my Bakwas.

Tks for bearing me buddy.

Cheers…

And yeah, I almost forgot. Happy friendship day.

Sunday, July 01, 2007

A rainy encounter..


Its been raining like crazy for the past 12 hours now. The scare within everyone in Mumbai is “Hope this does not turn out to be another July 26”

The lights have gone off. Dunno when they would return.

My pals were about to meet at my place today. But by the looks of the situation, don’t think anyone of them is gonna think of moving their asses out of their beds…. (pssst… neither would I if I was them )

Today my mind races back to July 26 last year, where entire Mumbai was submerged in water. The very component of mother that which is scare in the desert, was the taker of lives in Mumbai, due to excess of it.

I was with the Taj then, and I remember just chilling at the hotel for two days. My room was converted into a bedroom at night. As I flicked through channels I saw, though I was lucky there were others that came head on in the path of the destruction. The house of a few friends were destroyed. Another person that I knew, drowned in his house. It was a tale of horrors that surfaced day after day.

I realized how fortunate my family and I were. There are things that I always take for granted. But instances like these make me aware things around me. Maybe that’s what has made me conscious of my actions and what effect they would have on those around me. I guess everyday is a new learning. What you learn can be either left the way it is, or used to make benefit from it. I try to opt for the latter. But human that I am, I use it strictly to my convenience. :)

Saturday, June 30, 2007

Old rooster still at his best...



Now I know this is off beat... Came across this video and honestly speaking found it hillarious.

The moral police immediately got a chance to get some work done. Arrest warrants issued against both of them...

Was it just because they were celeb's?

Time will tell...... Will let you know if I land up in Jail some day.......

Watch out for this space.

HAHAHAHA.

Cheers.

Party time at my place today..



It's Saturday today. After a long time my batch from Senior College from Wilson College are finally meeting up again. The last time we met was at Ganya's place. :)

My folks are chillin in Goa, and they are cool about me playing host. :)

The last time we all met, we chatted from dawn right upto dusk. Chetan had to leave as he had to run for the Mumbai Marathon. Man he came second from IMRB the company which both he and I work for. Anu had to leave early (girl nah, and stays far away in a village called BORIVLI... Oh incidentally I stay 5 mins from her place. hahah)

Stan had to leave as he was scared of the BEER MAN. Peter made the best of it, by calling his place and letting his goan dad know, that Stan has lived up to the goan tradition, is pissed drunk and on his way home. He does assures Stan's dad "Don't worry uncle, you baba will reach home". HAHAHA... He is the guy that breaks the beer bottle at the end of the video due to which all our heads turn back. :)

Saeed was made the old man and was carried around. Samee was the usual quite self, coming alive when we discussed about scarf’s, as that's what earns him his bread and butter.

Ryan was in his usual high spirits, speaking philosophically of the "Those were the days... and all"

Nigel my bath room savior always had grown like a pumpkin. Here's a small joke about Nigel and me. We were back from a excursion, and suddenly when approaching Dadar I wanted to use the loo bad for what they call 2 NUMBER..... HAHAHA.. Nigel volunteered "You will reach my house in 10 mins". After a torturous 10 minutes we reached his place and he told me to use the loo that was out of the house. I reached there with relief, only to find out.... THE LOO WAS LOCKED !!!!!!! I screamt "KEYS" Nigel came, fumbling with the keys. Oh I forgot mention he had cracked his glasses during the excursion, and now scientifically BLIND.... I opened the loo and let a sigh of relief.... Hey doesn't end here. I realized that the water was not running. I yell "Nigel" again, to which I find a pipe slide under the loo door, and come the instructions "SCREAM MY NAME AGAIN WHEN YOU WANT ME TO TURN ON THE TAP"... hahahaha


Ankush opted out as he had to attend a friends sangeet.

Dudlee was in his usual unassuming self...........


Well its 2:00 a.m. in the morning and these guys will be dropping in at 8:00 p.m.

LOOKING FORWARD TO IT...............

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Guess what is this this guys upto?


Bet you must have seen the COPS a.k.a pandus, posted at railways stations. Either you will find them reading a newspaper or frisking passengers that sport huge bags.
After the frisk the passenger as a policy they take down the name and other contact details of the passenger (god knows for what?).

I was waiting for the train and as usual it was delayed. I see this cop in the pic, writing names and comments against them. He was jotting it down in Marathi. Thanks to the place I used to stay around 15 yrs back I picked up the language, yup and a lot of friends (& gurlfriends :) ) that I had were Maharashtrian’s, so marathi was a breeze always.

Looks like all other professions this cop too had a target to achieve.

The usual devil in me arose. I put the camera on silent, and clicked few SPY SHOTS, till I got the perfect one I wanted.

Thank god no one spotted me doing that, or I would have been mistaken to be part of the BiN LaDeN gang. :)

Monday, June 25, 2007

HR on the net? What? HR?

Today is the age of the internet, or at least that is what they say.

With majority of the youth tuned to the internet, either just casually surfing around, or chatting or socializing on Orkut (I swear by this. Addicted actually).

Internet branding is a one stop solution if your target audience are the ones more tech and current information savvy.

Employers have to now actually beyond the conventional system of recruitments, such as adv’s in the newspaper, roping in head hunters etc. It wouldn’t be a bad idea actually for hiring that young H.R. executive and give him an all access to the web world, taking special permission from the IT department of in your org of course (minus access to XXX WebPages). Blogging is a strong tool, that may attract prospective employee to you, and thus in turn to your org.

One has to keep abreast with the current issues that are happening in the H.R. world. You have to look beyond the traditional way of learning from your bosses concept. Access to online publications and websites such as www.citehr.com keeps you updated. You get a chance to interact with industry professionals and exchange view, as questions and GET HELP.

So don’t just sit there, open the all important webpage that I usually refer to www.google.com. Keep one new topic in HR as a target for the day. Once you make it a habit you will yourself be amazed to know that how helpful that practice to develop you as an H.R. professional (besides helping you give the management fundas in public time and again). HAHAHA.

All the best. Happy
GOOGLING
.. 

Saturday, June 23, 2007

A prank on the Chinese embassy......


Came across this photograph...

Thought the voring photo could be made more interesting.....

So I touched it up.... And look whats the outcome...

HAHAHA...

Cheers....

Friday, June 22, 2007

Watch before you write......


I got an mail forwarded today by a fried of mine. It involved Tommy Hilfiger, the fashion tycoon. The message alleged that he had made racial comments on the Oprah Winfrey show. He supposedly mentioned

"If I had known that African-Americans, Hispanics and Asians would buy my clothes, I would not have made them so nice," and "I wish those people would not buy my clothes - they were made for upper-class whites." What did he say when Oprah asked him if he said these things? He said "Yes." Oprah immediately asked Hilfiger to leave her show.

I was infuriated, considering I just met someone a couple of weeks ago that had picked up some merchandize that belonged to the Brand. My very instct was to forward the mail to the 310 odd friends that I had in orkut, in hope that they would do the same and make people think before they picked up the brand merchandize.

For some reason I held myself back and check the net for the truth, I came across Orrah’s very own website and her interview with Tommy, and I learnt that it was a hoax. Find the conversation on
http://www2.oprah.com/tows/slide/200705/20070502/slide_20070502_350_101.jhtml



Moral of the story:

Forwards can make or break peoples lives. An opinion that may hold true for you may not be the truth.

Next time we send a forward, be responsible to check the credentials before sending it across, god knows what the outcome will be.

Think before you send that email.........

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

I seal my lips


I was watching the Canadian GP, and at the start of the race I made a cooment to my friends "Its been time since I've seen a real major accident in Formulae 1"........

Minutes ticked by watching the GP, and LO there is a big thud, Robert Cubica car is crushed.....................

I witnessed one of the worst crashes in Formulae 1 EVER......

Moral of the story:

Do not wish or think something negative, cause there maybe somethings that life won't give you a second chance to correct.....


Phewwwww ....... That was serious shit man.... (for once)

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Pessimists move on


Pessimists move on…


Feels like ages since I stopped by to write. Every time I decided to write something it marks an occasion. A occasion of sorry or happiness, or apprehension or disgust or fun or just plain thought.

Today I just sat all by myself to wonder why people make life difficult for others. I stop to think why people are pessimistic. I stop to think, why in the first place think ill about others, leave alone raising their hands of vocing dim comments about them.

“What you sow is what you reap” this is one statement that you would hear over and over again… Yup, mostly in movies…. The dude JESUS mentioned it too.  Jokes apart, I am thoroughly convinced of this phrase I have seen it happen to people in front of me. Sooner or later, they get cut by their own sword which while drawing back after piercing others.

Lets think of it this way. Does it really matter what you think about someone. Whether he is good or bad, who the hell does is he/she sleeping with, dinks and smokes. No, you are building all these thoughts within your own head.

You have no reason to make an opinion about others, trust me the more you do it, the more you get affected by it, not the other person.

Think about this…….

You’re at Bandra station. Waiting for the train to come. The platform is crowded. You hear constant announcements of a fast train that is passing by, the announcer warning you to keep clear from the path of the train. The platform is super packed. People are pushing each other. You try to step back, taking heed to the announcement. But something is no right. Someone from the crowd nudges you forward unintentionally. You take a step ahead. That’s when the train too approaches you. You stare at it point black. Thud……………………………………………………..


Shaken up??? Uncertain like is right?

Why do you want to care of the petty things that happen around you? Live life happily. Give others a reason to live. Be cheerful and always sport that smile on your face.

According to me, those that are really happy and those who are clear from within. Try to get into that league. It’s difficult, but the feeling is amazing. You wouldn’t want to get out. 

PEACE!!!!!!!!

Thursday, March 29, 2007

I Do.....


I DO…




Forever my darling, our love will be true, now and forever I’ll love only you…… Doesn’t this song make you hum along when it’s played at any catholic wedding. Yeah I know, Ralston you’re a FU%^$& senti ass. HAHAHA. But what the hell ya love that song.

Was listening to this person on radio that called in. His voice was painful. As he continued his conversation, it was as I guessed a voice of someone that was broken in love. Too bad for him, the R.J was insensitive to his feelings. He wanted someone to tell him that whatever he did was right. That it’s fine to be in love. That, it’s fine to love someone more than they love you. That, it’s fine to be broken. He needed someone to hear him out, not to ridicule him with witty one liners about how to bury the past.

I personally feel that love is one of the best things that can happen to a person. I know huzaar people will tell you. Don’t fall in love, cause you will end up hurt.

So what? If you don’t fall in love, you will never know what love is.

Don’t shop around for love; it’s not available of shelves. Some may find it in their best friend. Some in an acquaintance. So in a collegue at work. It will happen, may take time, lot of time. Just go with the flow. Be conscious about not trying hard to fall in love. And don’t say the I DO without thinking.

Those two words are big. You entrusting yourself to someone else. Someone you think deserves it. Some who think loves you more than you love her/ him….

Again, trust me being in love is the most beautiful feeling in the world.

Cherish it……………
WHILE IT LASTS
….. lol…….

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Straight from the heart...


Straight from the heart…..

No no it’s not Bryan Adams that I was implying. Just decided to change da so called ‘about me’ section.

How many of you have done the things that you wanted to do always? Things that you hold very close to your heart. Things that you would want to tell your kids, “So what? I’ve done it long ago” or rather not tell you kids.. lol….

Guess we all have our limitations as to why we can’t. Valid or invalid, you yourself would know. But the important thing is that you try. You try to make that impossible thing work for you.

Yup, I do believe in miracles, but I also know that they happen when saints ask for help. Me I’m Lucifer’s successor, so I can’t even think they will come true for me. Jokes apart, guess if you that little extra effort. Maybe of working hard, going on a diet and for those in topsy turvey relationship’s, forgiveness and the want to be together and make things work for you; if you do this, maybe you’re a fraction away from that miracle to happen.

Now, the TRUTH.. Yup I believe in miracles too. I passed my 12 lol. Praise da Lord…  I fell in love with the most beautiful girl in the world. I climbed one of the tallest peaks with bare hands. I got my 1986 baby – my yezdi,and my concubine – Enfield. I am now confident about my career; the list goes on and on and on…….

The most important thing is that you
TRY
……

Jeezzzzzzz……. I would’ve definitely become a priest…. But I thought otherwise… Lucifer uncle would be heart broken…..

LOL!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

HARI OM.. Raggamaffin


Piked up this T for dirt cheap...

Mom got a shock.

Wore it for holi.

It got F%^$#D in the mud and color.

Gone for washing.

Let's C if it survives after the wash.

Simbly love it man.

"AHHHHH FEELS GUD......"


Thats Stevie boy... Getting POKED.....

HAHAHA

Monday, March 05, 2007

Don't you cry tonight......


Heard this song after ages in the form of a ring tone of Rahul, my collegue at work. Referring to
DON”T CRY
.

An amazing track, with so much of depth not only in th sound, but in the lyrics too.

Guns and roses was the group that I got introduced in Junior college. The introduction to “The deils music” as the religious say.. HAHAHA…

Love the music.. Love any kind of music that’s soothing and different. Adore Norah Jones too, waiting to get my hands on her new album “FEELS LIKE HOME”

Check out the lyrics of DON”T CRY, Guns n roses.

Talk to me softly
There is something in your eyes
Don't hang your head in sorrow
And please don't cry
I know how you feel inside I've
I've been there before
Somethin is changin' inside you
And don't you know


Don't you cry tonight
I still love you baby
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight


Give me a whisper
And give me a sign
Give me a kiss before you
tell me goodbye
Don't you take it so hard now
And please don't take it so bad
I'll still be thinkin' of you
And the times we had...baby


And don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
Don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry tonight


And please remember that I never lied
And please remember
how I felt inside now honey
You gotta make it your own way
But you'll be alright now sugar
You'll feel better tomorrow
Come the morning light now baby


And don't you cry tonight
And don't you cry tonight
And don't you cry tonight
There's a heaven above you baby
And don't you cry
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry tonight
Baby maybe someday
Don't you cry
Don't you ever cry
Don't you cry
Tonight….


Loved it? Don’t just sit there, go ahead and download it. If ya still can’t manage drop me a mail, will send it to ya..

Cheers.

Friday, March 02, 2007

In memory of my watchman you just got F^%$#K bad


“Here comes the glorified father”,
said xyz hinting towards my watchman, as I entered my building.

I was like “What glorified father you talking abt”
Phewwwwww to put it in a short and sweet, my watchman jacked the box of a maid that stayed on the first floor. She was now five months pregnant with his kid.

The guy was asked now what he wanted to do about it?

At first he said “I will ask my father and tell you”.. HAHAHAH what was he thinking man? When he did it, did he say “Pappa can I do it?” Weird bhaiya. He later agreed to marry her.

This is some masala for gossip in the area now, especially for the women and my bekar old secretary of the building. They can keep themselves busy deciding the fare of –

THE JACK IN THE BOX!!!


Ha ha ha

Thursday, March 01, 2007

I'm finally gonna burn RUBBER!!!!


TWO AND A HALF WEEKS GONE with excuses that are below.

“Have started on the work you will get it tomorrow."
"Some issue sir, tomorrow for sure."
"Sir buffing guy has delayed he said he would give it tomorrow, will fix it by day after."
"Sir the buffing guy had not started the work yet, I stood on his head and he finally stared it this morning."
"Sir I went today but the shop was closed, now he will open only day after, will get the engine then."
"Sir got it will fix the entire thing today.
Sir there were some minute problems that I need to check, will deliver it to you tomorrow."

All excuses that my mechanic gave me………

I FINALLY GET IT NOW………

My Maschismo, yeah a enfield make over.

It was a dream to ride one right since class I cause I had a bike freak uncle who used to make frequent trips to Goa on his enfield and used to tell me stories about his trips n stuff.

I picked a 1986 YEDZI a year back and trust me the first month that I had it, I felt like a newly wed couple that were both virgin’s and never had any sex education whatsoever. HAHAHA. There were times that the rides to Bandra for da weekend parties were harrowing. I still recall an incident when the bike just stalled on a flyover and refused to start. Petrol, spark plug, everything was intact, god only knew what was the problem. Frustrated I stopped a passing auto rickshaw and asked him to guide the bike with his one leg stretched out of the vehicle, a prayer and switch in the second gear and the bike kicked to life. Why did it happened? God only knows and hope he never gives me another incident and tell’s me “Son this is why it happens”. Oh and BTW, I call the Yezdi my first wife.

Maschismo is a 349 cc killer machine, the engine’s glittering with the new buff job for what it took one and a half weeks. It still requires a paint job though. Will do it eventually. A long drive on is what I am dying for.

PUNE watchout for me…. RALSTON’s gonna be burning RUBBER en route to ya…..


P.s: About the
RUBBER
bit... Pun intended please..

Literally chillin out.... :)




Spotted near a market, chillin on a ice piece thrown away by a fisherwoman..

:)

While I was baking in the sun, he was relaxing....

WHAT A DOG....


:)

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

MISSED THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON...


Damn I missed it….

No heart breaks, it was my own decision. It was the show or the rework on the bike. I chose the latter….

“You suck”
“You don’t know what you have missed”
“I will buy the ticket for you darling, just be with me”
“It’s once in a life time…

La la la

These were all the beautiful comments I got for not attending the show.
But my mind once made up, there’s nothing and no one that can make me think otherwise……

STUBBORN AT TIMES THAT I AM….

================================================================================


According to Rolling Stone the lyrics came from Roger Waters' experience when he was injected with tranquilizers for hepatitis by a doctor prior to playing a Pink Floyd show in Philadelphia on the band's 1977 tour for the Animals album. "That was the longest two hours of my life," Waters said. "Trying to do a show when you can hardly lift your arm." The experience gave him the idea which became this song.

Here are the lyrics to my all time favorite tracks...
COMFORTABLY NUMB
.....

Hello,
Is there anybody in there
Just nod if you can hear me
Is there anyone at home
Come on now
I hear you're feeling down
I can ease your pain
And get you on your feet again
Relax
I'll need some information first
Just the basic facts
Can you show me where it hurts

There is no pain, you are receding
A distant ship smoke on the horizon
You are only coming through in waves
Your lips move but I can't hear what you're saying
When I was a child I had a fever
My hands felt just like two balloons
Now I've got that feeling once again
I can't explain, you would not understand
This is not how I am
I have become comfortably numb

O.K.
Just a little pin prick
There'll be no more aaaaaaaah!
But you may feel a little sick
Can you stand up?
I do believe it's working, good
That'll keep you going through the show
Come on it's time to go.

There is no pain you are receding
A distant ship smoke on the horizon
You are only coming through in waves
Your lips move but I can't hear what you're saying
When I was a child
I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown
The dream is gone
And I have become
Comfortably numb.

IT'S A MATTER OF TIME


Getting used to the new place. Getting my bearings RIGHT. The climate’s not to condusive for survival, but what the hell, it never is.

Adjustments have to be done. Cracks have to be filled to have a smooth road ahead. It will take time, but surely it will be done.

People are nice, they are warm. Or at least I think so. Mea no harm, get no harm in return, this is my motto, and will stick to it. Don’t know whether it will be the same reaction in return.

Time will tell Ah, yes it will. Until then I do what I do best. The ride’s definitely goin to be bumpy. But what the heck?


IT WAS A CALCULATED RISK….

Friday, February 09, 2007

Kaam Wali Bai


This is what happens when you have a house of drunken people.

They ought to get sloshed.

Bottles ought to be broken.

And unlitimately....

Sober guys that don't drink ought to take care of them and
CLEAN THEIR MESS !!!!

Now don't ask me what they were upto


Let Your Imagination run WILD

:)

Shayam Yadav... He makes sure I get my Tea on time...... :)

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

SOMETHING’S DON’T CHANGE!!!!


You put all the effort in making sure that things are not the same like before. You try so hard to make things work out. You try so hard and explain why all this is so wrong. You try and explain that for now it may look all fine, but after sometime it will be back to square one. You explain that you have to arrest this situation right now. You explain that there you have to be brave and face it.

And most of all you do all this selflessly, not wanting anything out of this.

What happens?

Tables are turned back on you again.

But this time you decide. You tried you best, no sweat, so what if you lost something, maybe there’s a reason why.

Wish someone would tell this fluttering heart.

“The future’s not mine to see, move on for now. Take one day at a time”


I wow never to suggest, for I know not what’s right or wrong for anyone but me. But when asked again what do I feel, will turn around and say. Haven’t I’ve told you enough? Everytime I suggested what was good fr you, you played your own number, you had your own way, you did what you thought was right, but unfortunately wrong. Again right or wrong this time; time will unfold it’s story.

This time I will turn around and say…
“Guess it's too late, very very late”

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

‘MARRY SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU”……. ?????


‘MARRY SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU”……. ?????


I heard this saying sometime back on one of the well known Hindi channel and was baffled. What advice was that? Marry someone that loves you?

What about marrying someone that you love?


Isn’t love the basis of marriage? Or at least I thought so. We all at some juncture of our lives are faced with what we humorously term as “Personal Problem”. Personal problems they definitely are, because the times when you take tough decisions, your personal life sure takes a beating.

Pressure from family, from peers and finally pressure that we bring upon us by pondering hard over our future.

We wonder many times, why things do not happen the way we want them too. We always wanted to be happy, happy with the ones that we loved, but what if it does not happen? Everything happens for a reason. At least pessimists, guys that do not want to take onus of their relationship would be quick to blame it on fate.

But it mustn’t be that way right? Think about it logically. You love someone that person loves you, but due to various external reasons you think that this relationship is not going to work, is that right?

You will be fooling yourself into believing that whatever is happening is fine and its better this way. Time will slap you hard some day. A slap that will unfold all those thoughts that you had when you let the relationship slip away, when you had the chance to stand by it and make it work, the time when you should have stood by what you believed and made everything work around it.

That’s what life is all about. We want many things, but we don’t get them. To be successful on the professional front, one has to gain various degrees and keep abreast with the industry. On the personal front, it’s a different game altogether. You need two utmost important things, LOVE and TRUST. Have this and the desire to make things work for you around it.


Remember happiness lies in doing things that your heart tells you, not what others want you to.

Just be true to yourself and trust me you will always be cheerful.

Friday, November 17, 2006

“MAN FROM DUST HAVE YOU COME AND TO DUST YOU SHALL RETURN"


“MAN FROM DUST HAVE YOU COME AND TO DUST YOU SHALL RETURN"

Our journey in life begins the day we are conceived in our mother’s womb. Calm world it is then, experiencing the outside world through the mother.

As we grow year by year we experience various shades of life. Some shades we wish would have never faded away. Some we swear “was it really worth it?” We are in the constant flux throught our journey through life. Can anybody claim that he has always experienced the rosy side of life, and was never faced with life’s burdens? If you do, then definitely I want to meet you. “Take me as you disciple guruji” J

What when someone you know is suddenly taken away? What are the thoughts that run through your mind?
Are you of death?

I am, and will always be scared of death. A couple of years back I had a loved one that passed away. A part of my life, who had influenced me so much. Death was something that I would never imagine would visit him.

I stood by his body just staring at him, crying bitterly. I was dead to the world, inconsolable. I just could not come to the terms that a week back the person that I spoke too would be there just resting- an eternal rest.

Deaths are times that make me introspect myself always. What if I was dead today? What would the world have to say about me? Good riddance? He was a good guy? Oh I will miss my drinking partner? Who will send out the buzz at work now? I miss you son? He was the best friend ever? Etc. etc.

Can’t help it. I just can’t help thinking of these things. Yup now you may call me a pessimist. And yes I agree with the matter of death I am pessimistic. I AM SCARED. I am scared what if I have hurt someone and I die without saying sorry? What if I’ve cheated someone and not had a chance to repay? What if I’ve loved someone and never said ‘I LOVE YOU’? What if I wanted to thank someone but never did, as I was too egoistic?
The ‘what if’s’ are the ones that haunt me at this time. I immediate vow to undo the wrong that I have done.

I think this is something that I’m glad about myself. You may do hundreds of good things in a day. But you one word or action, if it hurts someone, no amount of your goodness would compensate for that one thing.

An advice. Just think before what you say or do and ask your heart this one question. ‘Am I hurting him?

Do this a trust me you will be a refined CHEERFUL PERSON.
The death of that loved one made my thoughts that I have today.



Thanks G.P….. I Miss You….

Friday, October 20, 2006

Seeking blessings from above at my workplace

Look people, they finally decide to feed me..

Friday, October 13, 2006

Did I say life's a bitch?

FINANCIAL FREEDOM?


Financially Free?


We all have the quest to be financially well off. What do we do towards it?

Finish graduation, then while some land up in call centres the other decided to struggle through two more years of education and decide to do an MBA. A decent paying job is picked up, and finally we think it’s time to relax. Time passes by. During college we used to get that Rs. 50 buck per day as you TIP for you eating expenses, and we somehoe managed in that amount. Today we earn much much more yet that amount is still less for us.

What do you do in such an instace. You can leave your current job, yet you need the added monies in order to fulfill you weekend party desires, while the hard earned salary goes into making of something important.

Yup, weekends are off’s and unlike our generation counter parts in the states that work their asses out even on the weekends to make the extra cash, we rather sit at home and wish that the cash comes walking to us.

WHAT IF THERE IS INDEED A QUIK FIX TO THIS ISSUE????

Heard of MLM???? Yup I’m sure selling Amway and Avon products would be a strict no no. How about a simpler option?

Wanna make money? I’m learning the trick to…. 

Here goes the concept. You gotta pick up a package worth around 6 grand, that’s a write off basically, but your mom’s would appreciate the products. Now you gotta refer two other people. Every two people. You get straight 1 grand. Now it’s upon the two to refer the others below you, or you can help placing people under them. Very two people that are formed under you, you and up earning a grand. Think about it, your sitting at the leisure of your homes, people multiply and you get da cash. Good news- It’s a week on week payments.

Otherwise anti such concepts I was attracted. Maybe it will help you too

Ask me.

No prostitution guaranteed.

No hard core marketing from my side. Just think I should share this money making tip with you guys.

Cheers.

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Happy birthday to you.....





“Thank you Jesus for giving me year to prove my worth”. Got out of my bed today by whispering these words.

Ponder on this. What are the thoughts that come to your mind on your birthday?
How many people are gonna wish me at the stroke of 12?
How many close friends are actually gonna remember my birthday.
Office colleagues- do they remember it?

Dus hazar thoughts just go on in your mind. Whether you like it or not, you just seem to be in your own bliss. Whether people wish you or not, it’s just an intrinsic feeling that it’s a special day in your life. You just don’t require someone to make you feel special on this day.

It’s a time when you ponder and look back and question yourself “What significant things have I achieved?”

“What’s your resolution this year”, asked my sis in law last night. Pondered for precisely 3 seconds and replied. “to mush my self more than what I did last year, maybe to the limit” 

This is a time when one makes resolutions, besides of course new year’s. Yup, I know what’s on your mind.. RESOLUTIONS ARE MEANT TO BE BROKEN, right? But think about it, would it cause you any harm to make one simple resolution, even if you don’t follow it, it sure plays on your mind. It will definitely help.

So WHERE’S THE PARTY TONIGHT the ultimate question that all ask you. “Not today, over the weekend’ Aww what a bore is the reply I get from most of the Junta. That’s me and this year I want it to be this way…….

Signing out…

Thursday, September 28, 2006

Office Networking.............


We all work. Clock in at sharp 9:30 for some that have strict Swipe in rules. While the some get to swipe in later, either due to the chilled atmosphere of the company (and that makes you work for like 5 times the amount of time you've been late by) haha, while the other's because.. "Mera boss bhi late ata hai yaar".. hahaha....

The day at work goes on. Making business strategies, .ppt slides, thinking out of the box for the the next gig, attending meetings, rushing deadlines and al. The end of the day URI just tired. Tired of all the stuff that happened during the day. Some stuff that gives you a high, while some that you wish never happened, or wished that you wished that would have had a better ending.

The end of the day is when one gets the time to actually contemplate on what happened during the day. Some would just put on those Sony Ericsson headphones and take that long walk to the railway station and then continue the same in the train en route home. Some choose to relax otherwise....... Parties, socializing in office.. Actually think of it they are real stress busters... In the 10- 12 hours that your at work hoe much of the time have you actually had by yourself? The much coveted half hour break too is practically a write off with never ending work piling on to you.

One takes time to ease out.. Some guys lucky with companies providing them with FREE BEER..... No I'm not giving out the name of the company.. For jeezz sakes this is not a recruitment strategy guys.. HAHA..

Well all I can say is DE-STRESS in the LITTLE time that you have. Cause that's important... YOU'VE EARNED IT FOR GOD'S SAKE..

Great going..... Sule, Shilpi, Aarti, Aditya.... Melroy... Sorry buddy missed you out of the Frame...

Cheers...


:)

Wednesday, September 27, 2006

My first thoughts..................


There are so many people that you come across in your day to day if. Some sleazy, that you would wonder why did you ever meeting them. Some at once strike a chord with you (No no.. no ladki wala strike I meant) who you could relate to you. Whereas some you meet are so very unassuming, that you just cannot read them.

I think I can read people way to well, whatever mask they put up before me of being gud, bad, tough etc... I can at once judge them... At least that's what I think. But there are instances in your life when your proved wrong.

"YOUR NOT BRUCE ALMIGHTY DUDE", yup that's what I get to know when I probe myself further. :)


What context does this write up has with the pic?? Well nothing. :) Just penned down the thoughts that came right up to me.

By the way the model that posing for me is Vrushit. My pal from UmTV. Great guy, with a great sense of humor.....


All I can say this is my first blog.. So watch out for the rest here.

Here come's "RAZ THE RIPPER"

Cheers.......
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